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Saturday, July 11, 2009

The trip

Well I said I'd be back. Clearly I lied. Time has been insane lately. And by that I mean I have absolutely none. Work is crazy, have moved twice in 8 months, and studying at uni online. I can't remember what it was like to be bored. Some time long ago in my childhood I actually got bored. What was that like? I'd like to revisit the feeling!

I am going to blog about a trip I took last year which I have been meaning to blog about. More for keeping memories for myself than anything. Now it will be a test of my memory. So here goes...

The trip. Why?

Ok so the trip was a month long affair. We have a friend in Beijing who had always made it clear (in the preceeding 4 years) that we were going to Beijing for the Olympics. No ifs. No buts. It was happening. And you know.. such a tough call.. do I go experience my 2nd Olympics in 8 years? Hell yea! So the trip started out as going to Beijing for the Olympics with the accompanying priority going to New York. The two don't really mix that well from Sydney. They're kinda not in the same vicinity. Continents and oceans in the way. We looked at various flight package options and the only thing that made sense was to get a round the world trip. Now what happens when you have a round the world ticket? You add things! And then add a few things more. And then you finish up by adding a couple more. So a 2 country 2-4 city trip turned into 6 countries and 7 cities. We could have added more but we were circling the globe the long way. Of our 29000 miles we managed to use up 28990 can you believe?! Well done I say.

Preparation:

Are you the laid back type who lets it all happen and packs the morning you fly? I'm not. Not. haha

I was planning our trip months in advance. I was a serial stalker of tripadviser.com reviews and discount travel sites. I planned our accom and sight seeing itinerary ad nauseum. That's me. It's not about being anal and a control freak.. its about me not being able to stop my enthusiasm. I can't help myself but want to do things.. like.. now! ie. as early as possible when its something that doesnt involve work! But I do like to be prepared and organised on a crazy trip where time was limited.

Accom: I booked most of our accom over 6 months in advance as we were gonna be in the Northern hemisphere summer amidst the craziness of peak travel periods. The specials all worked out to be awesome way in advance. Compared to prices a month out from our trip.. all accom increased by 25% to 300% (the 300% was New York). The only thing that dampened our love for the discounts we got was that we had to pay for a bunch of them up front. If only we could have got the discounts and not paid up front! Our dollar vs USD went from like.. 0.80 to 0.98 or something crazy but we stilll did awesome on accom.

Sight seeing: I knew from the outset that work had never been without me for such a long period and I was going to need to be in limited contact. This meant I took my work smart phone with Outlook etc. I planned our trip in hourly blocks completely and entirely in Outlook. Ok that sounds a bit anal doesn't it haha. But you must know me.. if I am not organised like that.. I'll clumsily make mistakes in the heat of the moment like forgetting things etc. I booked virtually everything in advance that I could including Broadway and West End shows and tickets to things like Buckingham Palace, the Washington Monument, Empire State, New York harbour cruise etc etc. I just cannot stand going somewhere and not being able to do exactly what I want because its booked out or the timing is wrong.

Flight prepartion: I was prepared for the flights too. The Star Alliance software is great. You can organise everything so easily and track miles, but also know what to ask the travel agent for. Without their software I wouldnt have been able to suggest about 50% of the flights that the travel agent wasn't suggesting. So I used their software + seatguru.com to choose the best combination of flight date & time / airport / plane model / entertainment options etc.

Seriously if you want to organise a world trip yourself, three things: airline alliance software + tripadviser.com + seatguru.com!

I specifically chose where possible planes with power outlets for my laptop and with good in flight entertainment. Boy was it worth it. We were gonna be doin over 55 hrs of flying (not including transit times for connections) and so bein able to sit and watch my downloaded TV shows and DVDs was a god send! So yeah I bought a  new laptop for the trip, had heaps of TV and DVDs with me and my iPod and books. I was set.

So on to the trip...

Day 1 (kinda - crossing 10 time zones make things a bit crazy)

- Leaving Sydney for Montreal

DSC00945 We were flying with Star Alliance and about half the flights were with Air Canada. I have a friend who works there and he was able to assign our seats 6 months out or somethin crazy like that. So we were always at the front of the plane ready to sprint out Amazing Race style. Even on the A380 from Singapore. He was also ONTO IT when it came to our flights. Keeping us up to date with delays etc. That helped so much. When you're on a big trip and connections are involved, its easy to get stressed about delays. Starting out.. the day before.. we knew the plane coming in from Vancouver to take us back there was on track to be 2 hours late.. meaning it would probably leave late.. meaning we might get into Vancouver late and miss our connection. Its nice knowing ahead of time - cuts out the stress! So that in fact did happen. Although it was possible they could have made up time with winds etc they didnt and our flight was late taking off. Again it was possible to make up time on the way to Vancouver and I think we made up some, but we still missed our connection. As for the flight itself: 14.5 hours of insanity. I can't sleep on planes (except when I fly business but more on that later!). I was prepared with my laptop and TV and Air Canada's VOD system was pretty good. But 14.5 hours stuck on plane is insanity inducing. I was ok until about 8 hours in.. then it was like.. ok I've had enough I want to get off!

DSC00953 So yeah.. we got into Vancouver late and missed our connection. My Canadian friend had prepared us for havin to wait for the next Vancouver - Montreal flight or reroute through Toronto where the flights are more frequent. We hurried to the carousel and got our bags and hot footed it to the connections desk and boy were they slow! Each person took about 20 minutes to process cos of some system problem. This meant delayed people were being delayed more. Luckily we made it with literally 2 mins to spare on a flight to Toronto requiring another connection to Montreal. The people behind us would have had to wait ages. Our forward seats helped Amazing Race style!

 Upon landing in Vancouver and turning on my phone I got a flood of voicemails, e-mails and SMSs because of a disaster at work. I was a zombie and not really caring a whole lot because there was nothing I could do. Our data service company had errantly actioned a disconnection request for a few services as a disconnection of ALL our services. I was away from work one day and all hell had broken loose. All 7 of our offices lost their internet and access to the WAN. Fantastic. Note: my disconnection fax had clearly stated "DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES DISCONNECT ANY OTHER SERVICE THAN THOSE LISTED" (yep bold and underlined). So of course thats exactly what they did. F-wits.

DSC00958 So back to our missed connection. I think the flight was about 4.5 hours which I was loving (errr). Eventually we got into Toronto and finally had a bit of time to stretch our legs on the ground and get some real food while waiting for our Montreal flight. We sat down at a little cafe for a bight and I got out my laptop to get online and see what was happenin news and work wise. No sooner had I opened up my brand new laptop than my boi had decided to force an evervescent energy tablet into a bottle of water that's neck was too small for the tablet. The result: a small fountain of water that rained down on my new laptop! I turned it off and dabbed tissues for the next 20 minutes (with the help of a nice Canadian man) and then turned it on. Result: high pitched sound and nothing else. I could have throttled him! More on that later..

DSC00957Being in Vancouver and Toronto briefly had a kinda odd feeling about it.. I hadnt travelled outside Asia before (which I had done 7 times) and I'm a big world news and history fan so I always felt connected to the rest of the world but finally here I was.. in another Western country. It was kinda surreal. Felt like I was comin extra late to the party. Finally visiting the rest of the old Western world where our common history began. Especially as I am a big US history fan and had studied world relations and politics at uni.

DSC00961 So we got on the Toronto to Montreal flight and eventually got in. All this time we had been juggling luggage, carry ons and a didgeridoo for our Montreal hosts. For some reason the didgeridoo had some mystical meaning to people. I had checked with the airlines in advance if it was ok to carry on and it was. Every security check though was met with a blank stare and a "I'm not sure if we can allow that on board" remark. As soon as we said it was a didgeridoo it was always ok. "Oh ok sure". It wasn't the Olympic torch. Don't know why it always made the difference. But took it we did!

I think we left Sydney at 11am on a Friday. We got into Montreal after over 20 hours of flying at about 7:30pm on the same day or something. Gotta love those time zones!

Our Canadian friends picked us up from the airport and received their didgeridoo and at long last the trip was over! The longest leg by far was over. Relief was an understatement. Driving back from the airport was kinda surreal too. I had been in countries that drive on the other side of the road before but it had been a while. I kept closing my eyes on the way to my friends place. Scary!

So we got in and resisted the temptation to sleep immediately and stayed out that night for dinner and a club in the Village. Boy oh boy was it nice to sleep that night!

Day 2 is next...


Friday, January 30, 2009

< Aus Open tennis >

The Aus Open has been pretty exciting this year. The Dokic run was enthralling, but with that over its time to get down to the business end of the tournament.

Surprised that Federer has come back from a shaky 4th round 5 setter where he was down 2 sets to love, to hit form and really not be challenged into the Final. Roddick never looks more ineffective than when he plays Federer in a major. All his flaws are laid out bare. 

Watching the Nadal v Verdasco match right now. Its 3 hours long and only in the 3rd set after they have split the first and its gripping. Man this tennis is physical. When I play my friends at tennis who are usually fitter than I am generally, I can always outlast them because I guess I'm tennis muscle memory fit or somethin. But I couldnt stay with these guys for more than 10 minutes (skills aside). Truly remarkable athleticism these days.

Edit. Wow Wow Wow!! What a match!! Amazing that players can keep up such a level for over 5 hours. Insano!

Verdasco is way buff now and actually pretty cute too. Haven't taken note before.

 Verdasco3

Verdasco2   Verdasco1

VerdascoStarkers 


Wednesday, January 21, 2009

< Inauguration >

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I just finished watching the US Presidential Inauguration, like probably a good portion of the world's awake population and probably 99% of the US population. I had to get up at 3am Sydney time. But it was easier than getting up for work at 7:30!

What are my thoughts on the Inauguration?

capitol Personal Perspective

I have a great interest in US politics which stems mostly from the West Wing, 9/11 and some study of political science when I was at uni, long before the recent primaries, general election and transition, so I have a natural interest in this. I was also in Washington DC in July of last year and so it all takes on more perspective. I have walked the length of the Mall from the Capitol to the Washington Monument to the Lincoln Memorial. I have walked through the Capitol including through Statuary Hall and the beneath the Rotunda just as Obama and Bush just did. I have taken the requisite photo in front of the White House. I have taken a segway tour of DC. Love the place and can't wait to go back.

Historical Perspective

I love pomp and ceremony of every kind and always make a point of watching anything historical. Be it coverage of an international emergency, an Olympic opening ceremony, a Royal event, a Papal change over, a famous figures funeral etc, a US election, I'll be standing by a TV. I think a president named Barack Husein Obama says it all. Great moment for the civil rights movement in the US and multiculturalism everywhere in the world. I didn't think I would see a black president. What a challenge he has and I cannot think of anyone better suited to tackle it. We have such high hopes for Obama. Looking forward to the parade.

Oath of office bungling

I thought it was great. I thought the miss steps in the oath of office were a metaphor for the reality that Obama steps into. For all the perfection of his campaign and (nearly) the transition, its a reminder that all is certainly not perfect. Granted the problems were caused by the Chief Justice's nerves in front of millions.

Presidential Address

Obama's Inaugural address and first speech as president. Obama continues to walk the line of history and I am sure would have loved to dedicate this speech to ranking it among the best in history and along side JFK's if not Lincolns, but the current crises consipired to make it more factual, sober and serious. The challenges ahead are not simply democratic capitalism vs communism or the West vs radical extremism, but complex international and transnational economic near collapse with the backdrop of world political turmoil. So his speech reflected that. Overall I think it was great. It requires re-listening and additional study and I will definitely be doing that.

Diane Feinstein

She walked a thin line of partisanship in her opening. She nearly miss stepped. I'd be interested to hear what Obama's communication team thought.

The Invocation and Benediction

I thought the pastor giving the Invocation thought he was doing his attempt at a historical speech. So so. The Benediction was great. Well written and the humour of the end was fantastic: "brown will stick around" etc.

bush exit Bush's presidency over

Thank god. So needed that we put the past 8 years behind us. Not just because of Bush's miss-handling of the post 9/11 world and US foreign policy, but also to put behind us the Bush spectre hanging over the financial crisis. Tough days ahead now of course but I feel we have at least moved from ineffectual damage control to considered recovery.

inauguration_mall_east The Mall

Wow. Wow. Wow. Enough said.

John William's composition

Not what I was expecting. It would seem John Williams tapped the emotion of the current times and not his usual bombast for historical moments. Poignent. I'd be interested to know if it was written with Perlman and Ma in mind almost more than the occassion. I'd like to re-listen.

Security

Mamoth task and very impressively done. I would love to have been in the Secret Service / Homeland Security control centres. To be a fly on those walls!


Sunday, January 11, 2009

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< A Return? >

Wow I haven't blogged in so long.

I sat up late last night watching a documentary and surfing blogs and vlogs while I was watching and I realised I missed blogging. Does anyone else do that? I find its a real problem for me. I should never watch TV with a laptop in reach. I think I have an addiction to fact checking and background searching on the internet. If I am watching something, be it a documentary, news story, movie, tv show or whatever, I find myself constantly looking for tangent information about what I am watching. I'll usually be checking reviews on www.rottentomatoes.com, looking at actor / director bio / filmography info on www.imdb.com, checking out latest scoop info on www.aintitcool.com, surfing www.wikipedia.org for encyclopaedic type info or just generally googling for info. I have a restless mind always on the lookout for fine details (why oh why?) and I find it both enjoyable and also at times infuriating as I will constantly have to rewind what I am watching having missed half of it because of one of my tangent web searches.

Okay so back to blogging: where oh where has the time gone? Basically ever since I moved out of home I ran out of time. Why? I should have more time. I am pretty sure I do have more time. I am closer to home. I am living the life (in terms of day to day use of my time) that I want to live. Maybe its just what happens as the years pass. Either we really do have less time or we start to think we do.

What have I been upto? (Could be renamed: Will anyone even read this blog?)

Since May 2007 I have gone back to uni, solidified my position in a new job and done a world trip. I have also moved again argh! Moving is the pits of the world. Hate it with a passion. I think Facebook also killed my blogging a bit too. Even though theyre totally disimilar in terms of the community, in the end it just comes down to how much energy I have to communicate and socialise in a post uni era of life. Not much energy to spare!

So why return? I dont know. Maybe just to write. I enjoy it. I am fairly opinionated so perhaps this may give my bf a break from my opining haha. Just kidding.

Return entry:

Well I will start with a review of Bush's War, a documentary that disects the Bush administration's whole act of waging war on Iraq from the day of September 11 right through to just prior to the 2008 presidential election. Maybe not the sexiest return entry, but it is the most recent thing I have done and I think thats where I want to start. I stayed up till 3:30am last night watching it. 

Yep I am Australian, and I have a keen interest in America so this was bought for me as a Christmas present. My interests however are more often about US history and politics, not war, and it was given to me as a bookend to another DVD which was a focus on Barack Obama and it makes for compelling viewing. My interest in the US intensified after 9/11 (I was 22 at the time) and I must admit to largely training my attention on all things other than the Iraq war beyond the political context, even though I knew I was ignoring one of the most important events in the history of the US. This documentary was a real eye opener. I would say I am like most observers of the conflict (who have no direct connection to it) and see it for its difficulty and sheer horror and have been overwelmed by its complexity, and frankly, sheer length. Keeping a mental hold on the conflict is not easy without real absorption. This documentary puts everything in such well crafted chronological order and necessary context that one comes out of it with what feels like an infinitely more informed viewpoint and one I hope to be a starting point for further study on my part.

Viewing it was especially timely for me given the recent election and imminent inauguration of Barack Obama, and I imagine, was much more timely for US audiences pre-election. I started out with a negative pre-9/11 opinion of the Bush administration, which became supportive immediately post 9/11, and has solidified into a poor opinion, specifically in connection to the response of 9/11 post Afghanistan and the handling of the 9/11 Commission.

This documentary for me expanded upon my initial distrust of the administration as it opens an endless parade of further avenues for questioning and slams home my initial opinion even further. Don't get me wrong I still find America and its society fascinating and the people mainly fantastic, I just dont like the Bush administration.

Economics aside, the next 2 years will be VERY interesting for America.

Good luck Mr Obama.


Sunday, May 27, 2007

< Holding the Man >

Holding-the-Man-Poster I went to see a play yesterday at the Opera House called Holding the Man. I had originally wanted to see this last November when it first played at a small theatre but it sold out so fast that I wasnt able to get tickets. There was a 2nd season in March but without thinking I ended up booking it for the same night as the Mardi Gras and as we had a friend in town specifically for the Mardi Gras we had to give them away. Luckily they announced a 3rd season and this time at the Sydney Opera House which was a nice setting. All 3 sold out.

I hadnt seen a play since I was in year 11 or 12 and watched Shakespeare's The Tempest at the Belvoire in Sydney. I'm not a Shakespeare fan but it did have Cate Blanchet in it and she was awesome.

Holding the Man was also awesome. The acting was brilliant and the story has you in stitches at some points and with wet eyes at others. It doesnt hurt that the two main actors were oh so cute. The story starts with two 15 year old school boys, one a drama student and the other the highschool jock, and follows their 15 year relationship through the late 70s and the 80s and ends with the ravages of HIV/AIDs in the early 90s. The story is autobiographical and so punches some real weight because of its reality.

I have been reading up a bit on it and read an interview with the playwrite and he touched on how the time distance between now and the peak of the AIDs epidemic allowed him to be able to write the play with a comic edge and a focus on the relationship and not just on the political overtones which would have dominated it if it was produced earlier. He also mentioned the Grim Reaper ad shown here in Australia in 1987 and until he did I had completely forgotten about it. I was only 5 when it started showing but I have a definite memory of it. I didnt know what it was about at the time but it definitely scared the hell out of me.

Someone has uploaded it on youtube:


Dont let this detract you from the play but do watch it for the message it relays and think of the context - it was shown in 1987?!

There is talk of interest from other cities around the world so if it ever makes it to your town I definitely urge you to go see it. It was based on a book which won the 1995 United Nations Human Rights Award for Non Fiction which is available in the States and Canada as well.

(Actually I just discovered it is already scheduled for performances in San Francisco September through November this year). If  you are in SF go see it.

I'll let a review speak for it as it does it better justice than I could:

Sydney Morning Herald
http://www.smh.com.au/news/arts-reviews/holding-the-man/2006/10/26/1161749228028.html

Holding the Man

Stephen Dunne, reviewer
November 13, 2006

Tommy Murphy's adaptation of Tim Conigrave's memoir is an act of urgent remembrance - and the story of two people in love.

Matt Zemeres and Guy Edmonds in Holding the Man.

Matt Zemeres and Guy Edmonds in Holding the Man.
Picture: Janie Barrett

Review

It is easy to forget, to allow the memories of the relatively recent past to slide away to a possibly helpful distance.

Australia's experience of HIV/AIDS in the 1980s and '90s is thus ancient history, and so much of that time is gone: a time of the dead and the dying; vigil shifts at ward 17; watching brilliant and beautiful men sliding into garbled dementia; polite efforts to avoid funeral scheduling conflicts; two full pages of obits in the Sydney Star Observer; anger and love and screaming horror at the waste of so many lives. Surprisingly easy to let all that go.

Tommy Murphy's adaptation of Tim Conigrave's memoir is an act of urgent remembrance, an unflinching, devastating, moving and funny reanimation of that awful time. It is also the story of two people in love.

Conigrave (Guy Edmonds) falls for John Caleo (Matt Zeremes) at high school and they are, mostly, a couple until death. Their lives are skilfully theatricalised and biographically clear: for Tim it's GaySoc at uni, NIDA, acting, Soft Targets (the first Australian performance work to deal with HIV/AIDS) and other theatre work. For John, training as a chiropractor and opening a practice. For both, a relationship, and then diagnoses and telling friends and family (the other coming out) and the grim inevitability of blood tests and decline.

The adaptation makes the love of these two men, and the world they lived and died in, completely real. Brian Thomson's nicely messy, actor's mirror design and Michael Agosta's costumes are evocative, and beautifully functional, while Basil Hogios's sound and Stephen Hawker's lights are theatrically efficient and temporally accurate.

David Berthold's direction plays fully with the theatricality of a work that's set, at least partially, in a theatre. The entire space is used. There's a sharpness of pacing and a richly rewarding attention to emotional detail.

Jeanette Cronin, Nicholas Eadie, Robin McLeavy and Brett Stiller play everyone else (48 characters by my count) in a bravura display of ensemble skill and sharp delineation.

Edmonds and Zeremes are superb, with an unaffected directness and tenderness.

There's a famous slogan from that time: "knowledge equals power". It still does, but knowledge isn't just safer sex and treatment regimens. It's also knowing how the past helps prevent recurrence.

Murphy, Berthold and the cast's tribute to Caleo and Conigrave is compelling, wrenching and essential. I laughed, and I wept. History's like that.



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